Alone Again, Naturally
Holidays can be both a time of extreme happiness and a time of deep sadness and lonliness. We can be happy to know that we have loving friends and family and yet go home to an empty home. I know. It’s a place that I’ve been to many times in my own past. I would be the life of the party and yet still come home alone at the end of the night. And the harder I seemed to try, the more finding the right person for me seemed to escape me. So, you’re not alone in feeling this way. You can learn to make an Incredible Connection tonight from the comfort of your own chair.
1st Steps in Attracting a Harmonious Partner
Here are some of the things that I did that led to my never coming home alone again (unless I actually wanted the rest, of course!):
- Learn to Be at peace with yourself – Be Happy In your own skin
- Discover Your passion in life
- Find places where others are that share that passion
- Know that you are a valuable person
- Know that you are meant to be happy
- Know that someone is dying to share in that happiness – With You!
Be At Peace With Yourself
Let’s get this out of the way. First and foremost- it all starts with you. It’s really all about you anyway. You can’t really experience it any other way. You will only attract the equivalent of what energy you are sending out by your true feelings about yourself. It isn’t about the other person. You’ll know that you’ve passed this step when you can lay in bed or on the couch in the evening and say to yourself “I love you [your name].” This may seem hard at first but it only takes a decision to do it, that’s it. So, please sit or lay back and do this step right now. You're now moving towards your goal and it is moving towards you too.
Discover Your True Passion In Life
What is the one thing that you could do on your own or by yourself that would make you feel really good? Do you love a particular song? A particular Movie? A particular Place? A particular activity? This critical step requires you to find one or more of these particular things, and write them down. When was the last time that you actually did or experienced any one of them? If you can’t even remember, then it’s time to write down at least five things that make you feel really happy, and then plan to do one of them within the next week. That’s an excellent start.
Can You Do This Passion Socially?
People are naturally drawn to others that are “like them” and we say that we “like them” when we find them. If you like reading books, go hang out at a Bookstore in a mall or a library. You’re sure to meet other people who are enjoying the very same activity that you do. There are also plenty of internet groups, like meetup groups that other people just like you are organizing with your interest locally. You can even start one of these groups and be the hottest ticket in town. Now, that's taking the bull by the horns!
Realize You Are a Valuable Person
You are an extremely valuable person to the world. If you were not, then you would not even be here. There are many people who would be very excited to actually meet you and spend time with you. The more positive you are, the more you are sending out the right signals that others will notice and respond to. You must know that you are valuable and exude that confidence out the world stage. When you do that, you’ll find that your opportunities increase exponentially. Again, it starts in you.
Are You Meant to be Happy?
Happiness is not a decree it is a decision. You can decide to be happy or miserable at any time of your life. You see it all the time around you. Your perception will create your reality. If you are doing what makes you happy, then you are truly happy, simple as that. Decide that you are worth it and tell it to yourself many times a day. How many times you might ask? Over and Over and Over until you really believe it. When you do that consistently, your subconscious will believe that and you’ll find yourself acting happy even when you don’t realize that. And of course you will draw others to your happiness.
Someone is Dying to Meet You
Someone is desperately waiting for you to come prancing across their radar screen. It might take a long time to cross their screen if you’re just sitting at home and not doing what you love doing. So, what are you waiting for? I know some people may be naturally shy, and there is nothing wrong with that. Shyness can actually be a bit sexy. A good piece of advice would to be to learn about how to send and receive the signals that are being sent as you are out in the world in your daily life. When you learn how to read these signals of interest, you can act in confidence because you’ll know exactly what they mean, and how you should respond to get what you really want. You help others by helping yourself first.
Men and Women Attract Each Other Differently
If you’re a woman looking to naturally attract a quality man then I highly recommend that you read the 10 Secrets About Men.
If you’re a man looking to attract your vision of a beautiful woman then I recommend that you arm yourself by reading the following Free tips on how to attract, arouse any woman, kiss test, and more.
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